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I never took a physics class, and I have only a basic understanding of some of the laws that govern our world—at least the natural ones—but I’ve been interested lately in the concept of momentum.

 

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Momentum is “the product of the mass of an object and its velocity.” (Thanks, nerd on Google.) It’s how fast something moves. I always picture momentum as what happens when the performer keeps all the plates spinning atop sticks on a stage. As long as the performer puts in a little effort to keep them rotating, they maintain the status of spinning. Perhaps they lose momentum, but it doesn’t take much to get them going once they’ve begun.

 

I also understand momentum as not necessarily spinning, but moving faster in one direction, like a rock falling down a cliff. I guess it increases momentum as it gets going, until it hits something. (?) Some physicist can correct me on that, it’s not important to my point. Maybe just think of a runner increasing speed.

 

I’m not so much interested in gathering or gaining momentum on a scientific level or theoretical level, but I’m fascinated by it as it relates to completing anything in my life, whether it’s writing my next book or moving toward something I really want. Getting closer to whatever it is I want.

 

So much of life seems to be spent on a plateau. I stay in the same line of work. Live in the same place, which more or less seems to have the same level of neatness. I generally weigh the same, have the same amount of money, and so on. Often, I feel stasis—that things stay about the same.

 

But I have all these dreams. I’ve always had all these dreams. And most of the dreams involve change, and change for the better:

 

Fixing up the house.

Getting out of debt.

Losing weight.

Finishing a book.

And so on.

 

These are basic-level dreams. Ones that are easy to picture, often because I’ve done them before in a different way.

 

Some of my dreams are bigger though, so big I barely let myself think about them or say them out loud. (Like, what if one of my books became a movie?) These are the scarier dreams, and the ones I can’t be rational about. They’re ones that are subject to my superstitions, like if I talk about it, then what? I can’t think about the odds or all the reasons why they can’t happen. I can only think about ways they could.

 

But here’s the thing: I have no idea how to get momentum going on my big dreams.

 

Stated differently, if I have something I want so badly, and I have no idea how it’s going to come about, how do I do anything about it? It’s not like saving money where I, you know, put money aside. Do I just wait for the Universe to come deliver my movie to me? How else does it happen?

 

So, here’s what I started thinking. For things like decorating my house or saving money or losing weight, as I’ve said and is obvious, I know what to do to accomplish those goals/dreams. I just have to take the steps in the right direction and watch for taking steps backwards. Thus, I can gain momentum by simply keeping moving in the direction I want to go

 

But for the dreams that I have no idea about? How do I get the wheels turning on those?

 

Well, I came up with an idea.

 

While (for example) I don’t know all the steps to get a book made into a movie, I do know how to do one thing: brainstorm a concept for a movie. I mean, before you make a movie, you need a story, right?

 

The first step, thus, to get momentum toward my goal of having a movie made of my story is to come up with a great concept.

 

Well, at first blush, that sounds as daunting as getting a movie made, no? I mean, what, do I just magically have a great concept?

 

So, I broke it down again.

 

How do I come up with a great concept?

 

I continually brainstorm.

 

In accordance with that, I’ve started a small habit: to write down daily an idea.

 

One idea.

 

I don’t judge the idea. I just write it down.

 

Many people have heard of Jerry Seinfeld’s supposed method of writing jokes: he had to write one every day. It didn’t matter how good it was. It just mattered that he showed up every day and wrote a joke. That he x-ed off the day on the calendar as one on which he wrote a joke. And then his job became to not break the streak. To keep those x marks going on his calendar.

 

He didn’t judge himself as to how good the jokes were. He just showed up every day and wrote a joke.

 

Okay, I can do that. I can write down a concept every day.

 

And as applied to anything, I can break down my dream into something manageable that I can do daily.

 

I’ve only been writing down story concepts for a short while, and it’s amazing how much better I feel. How much more in control of my dreams I’m feeling. I have this brightness in my brain. I think it’s happiness.

 

But also, I’m sensing that I’m gaining momentum toward my goal.

 

And that’s everything.

 

I repeat, the action I’m taking is so small. The concept (of simply writing down a concept) is so tiny it’s almost insignificant, and it’s easy to ignore. It’s easy to skip a day. It can be one word: “robot” or “Victorian” or two, i.e. “Victorian robot” or literally ANYTHING.

 

Somehow, though, the very act of taking a tiny step toward my dream by writing down a story concept has made me so happy. I look at my growing list of ideas (for any kind of story, be it a book, series of books, script, whatever), and I feel strong. I feel like I’m gaining momentum. I feel like I’m moving closer to my dream than away from it. I’m not in stasis anymore.

 

Then I think about that old rule: objects in motion tend to stay in motion.

 

I can’t wait to see what concepts come.

 

So, if you have some secret dream, one that you have no idea how it’s going to come about, think of a tiny step you can do every day to move you toward it.

 

I bet it will make you happy. I hope it will move you toward your dream.

 

I hope I’m moving toward mine.

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